Confessions of a Shameless Flirt: How Making People Feel Good Became My Superpower

How Did I Get Here?

I grew up in a world where talking about sex was as taboo as wearing white to someone else’s wedding. A strict, religious upbringing meant my sexuality stayed locked up tighter than a chastity belt. And the fallout? Let’s just say it led to intimacy issues and a mountain of unnecessary guilt.

Fast forward to now, and I’m finally in a space where I’ve got nothing to lose by being 100% unapologetically me. No more hiding. No more shrinking. I’m here to own my power, take up space, and make a damn splash.

My friends know me as the one who’s always one step away from getting written up for “inappropriate behavior” (shoutout to every HR saint who’s had to keep me in line). But I can’t help it — I’m a natural flirt, a shameless class clown, and a die-hard believer in making people feel good. It’s just who I am.

And here’s the kicker: I’ve got the skills and experience to back it up. But the real reason I do this? My why? It’s simple.

I love making people feel good.

Because when you feel good, you show up differently. You shine. You flirt back with life. You command attention. I remember the first time a designer branded my photography business — it was like someone handed me a megaphone for my voice. Suddenly, I wasn’t just a photographer. I was a brand. And that confidence? That’s what I’m here to give others.